Best Sex Toys: A Friendly Guide to Pleasure for Every Body

Let’s be honest—shopping for sex toys can feel overwhelming. Whether you’re brand new to exploring or you’ve got a drawer full of favorites, figuring out what works for you (or you and your partner) shouldn’t feel like guesswork. So we’ve pulled together this friendly guide to the best sex toys for every body, style, and pleasure vibe—no pressure, just real talk.

What Makes a Sex Toy the “Best”?

“Best” is personal—what feels amazing to one person might not be the vibe for another. So when we talk about the best sex toys, we’re really talking about toys that are:

Body-safe and made from quality materials
Well-reviewed by real people (yes, we check!)
Easy to use, clean, and enjoy—especially for beginners
Made to enhance your unique style of pleasure

From powerful vibrators to subtle couples toys, the best toys are the ones that help you connect—with yourself or with someone else.

Best Sex Toys for Beginners

If you’re just getting started, welcome. Truly—this is a judgement-free zone. One of our favorite starter picks is a quiet waterproof vibrator that’s easy to hold, gentle to use, and doesn’t look intimidating.

We also love simple silicone dildos or vibrating bullets—they’re approachable, body-safe, and offer tons of ways to explore. Look for toys that are:

Rechargeable (no batteries, please)
Water-resistant for easy cleaning
Made with smooth, soft-touch materials

Best Sex Toys for Solo Play

Whether you're single, partnered, or somewhere in between, solo pleasure is self-care. Vibrators designed for self-pleasure come in all shapes—from pinpoint clitoral vibes to curved g-spot stimulators.

Want something versatile? Try a dual-stimulation toy that targets both the clitoris and g-spot. Many beginners love these for discovering what their body responds to. And don’t sleep on suction toys—they offer a unique kind of sensation you won’t find anywhere else.

Best Sex Toys for Couples

Adding a toy into partnered play can bring connection, laughter, and new kinds of intimacy. Some of the best couples sex toys are wearable, app-controlled, or designed to be used during penetration.

Here are a few couples’ favorites:

Vibrating rings that enhance pleasure for both partners
Remote-controlled toys for long-distance teasing
Massage candles and warm-up oils to set the mood

Our tip? Talk about it together. Explore our Couples Collection and pick something you’re both curious about. That’s where the fun begins.

How to Choose the Right Toy

Still not sure what to choose? No shame in that. Here’s a quick guide to help narrow it down:

For clitoral stimulation: Try a bullet, suction toy, or external vibe
For g-spot play: Choose a curved dildo or g-spot vibrator
For couples: Explore vibrating rings or wearable vibes
For something new: Try an app-controlled or luxury toy

And if you need a place to start, check out our handpicked Best Sellers. These toys are customer favorites for good reason.

One Last Tip: Cleanliness Is Key

Whatever you choose, clean it after every use. Our sex toy cleaning guide breaks it all down with no judgment, just facts.

And Yes—Sex Toys Are Good for You

Sex toys aren’t just fun—they’re good for your health, confidence, and relationships.

According to research published in the Journal of Sexual Medicine, sex toys can increase sexual satisfaction, reduce anxiety, and improve communication between partners.
Healthline notes that solo play (with or without toys) can help you sleep better, reduce stress, and connect more confidently with your body.
Even the Planned Parenthood sex toy guide encourages safe, fun use of toys as part of sexual wellness—especially for exploring pleasure on your own terms.

Explore. Enjoy. And remember—you deserve pleasure that feels like you.

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